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Dealing with Rejection

by Vicki Meade

Michaele Weissman, who has been published everywhere from The Wall Street Journal to Cosmopolitan, gave a lively pep talk on how to deal with the inevitable rejections that all writers face. Her main message: don't confuse rejection with failure. "Rejection is an action done by other people. Failure is a label we attach to ourselves—don't take rejection as evidence of your worthlessness."

The most productive attitude is to use rejection as feedback to help you improve your work or better target your submissions. "Be honest with yourself about the strengths and weaknesses of your writing," she said. "There's no shame in being a beginner. If you don't know how to structure a piece, for example, it's not that you're a failure, it's that you need help!" Focus on small successes, such as writing for a local newsletter or small weekly paper, and then build on them. "Don't think about fame, glory, or book contracts," Weissman advised. "Just keep working."


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Vicki Meade
Meade Communications
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